<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="/rss/feed-stylesheet.xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:geo="http://www.w3.org/2003/01/geo/wgs84_pos#"><channel><title><![CDATA[temmylade 3Speak Podcast]]></title><podcast:guid>747d122f-7da9-5b79-8ec0-ce7665fa74c3</podcast:guid><itunes:author><![CDATA[temmylade]]></itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>temmylade</itunes:name><itunes:email>temmylade@3speak.v4v.app</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><description><![CDATA[Listen and watch the latest videos from temmylade. Hosted by 3Speak.tv. The free speech video platform on the HIVE blockchain.]]></description><link>https://3speak.tv/user/temmylade</link><atom:link rel="hub" href="https://hub.livewire.io/"/><atom:link href="https://3speak.tv/rss/temmylade.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><podcast:hiveAccname>temmylade</podcast:hiveAccname><podcast:medium>video</podcast:medium><image><url>https://images.hive.blog/u/temmylade/avatar/large</url><title>temmylade 3Speak Podcast</title><link>https://3speak.tv/user/temmylade</link></image><itunes:image href="https://images.hive.blog/u/temmylade/avatar/large"/><podcast:podping hiveAccount="podping.spk"/><podcast:podping hiveAccount="podping.bol"/><generator>https://3speak.tv</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2026 20:56:50 GMT</lastBuildDate><copyright><![CDATA[2021 temmylade]]></copyright><language>en</language><ttl>60</ttl><podcast:value type="lightning" method="lnaddress" suggested="0.00000050000"><podcast:valueRecipient name="temmylade" type="lnaddress" address="temmylade@sats.v4v.app" split="95"></podcast:valueRecipient><podcast:valueRecipient name="Podping" address="podping@sats.v4v.app" type="lnaddress" fee="True" split="4"></podcast:valueRecipient><podcast:valueRecipient name="Podcastindex.org" address="podcastindex@getalby.com" type="lnaddress" fee="True" split="1"></podcast:valueRecipient></podcast:value><podcast:value type="HBD" method="transfer" suggested="0.05"><podcast:valueRecipient name="podcaster" type="account" address="temmylade" split="98"></podcast:valueRecipient><podcast:valueRecipient name="host" type="account" address="threespeak" split="1"></podcast:valueRecipient><podcast:valueRecipient name="podcastindex" type="account" address="podcastindex" split="1"></podcast:valueRecipient></podcast:value><item><title><![CDATA[I Was "Kidnapped" For 3 (Three) Days And It Changed My Perspective on Leadership.]]></title><itunes:author><![CDATA[temmylade]]></itunes:author><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><link>https://3speak.tv/watch?v=temmylade/awazqtutsk</link><pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2025 20:39:15 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>temmylade</dc:creator><guid isPermaLink="false">hive-181335/@temmylade/awazqtutsk</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://3speak.tv/watch?v=temmylade/awazqtutsk" rel="nofollow noopener" title="This link is not safe!">https://3speak.tv/watch?v=temmylade/awazqtutsk</a> <br />I honestly went for ELEDA 2025 thinking it would just be another “professional development program.” You know attend the sessions, take a few notes, enjoy the atmosphere and go home. But from the very first day, I realized this wasn’t one of those trainings you walk into casually and walk out the same way.</p>
<p>This one had depth.<br />
This one had intention.<br />
This one had impact.</p>
<p>Walking Into the Room…</p>
<p>The energy alone was different, everyone came with their own expectations, their own stories and their own hunger to grow. For me, I just wanted clarity, clarity about leadership, about influence and about the kind of person I am becoming.</p>
<p>But what I got was far more than clarity.<br />
I got awareness.</p>
<p>The Conversations That Shifted Something in Me</p>
<p>There were moments in the training that felt like someone picked up a mirror and placed it directly in front of my mindset, not to criticize me but to show me the parts of myself I often overlook, my strengths, my blind spots, my habits, my potential.</p>
<p>I realized that leadership isn’t about being the loudest voice or the busiest person.<br />
It’s about presence.<br />
It’s about self-control.<br />
It’s about knowing when to step up and when to step back.</p>
<p>Most importantly, it’s about serving others without losing your sense of self.</p>
<p>Lessons That Hit Deep</p>
<p>A few things stayed with me throughout the entire training:</p>
<p>Growth rarely feels comfortable, every stretch may come with a little discomfort, but that discomfort showed me areas I needed to work on.</p>
<p>Leadership starts from within, before you influence others, you must learn to manage yourself, your emotions, your reactions, your communication.</p>
<p>You can’t lead effectively if you don’t understand people. Empathy is not a weakness, it is a leadership tool.</p>
<p>Surrounding yourself with the right minds changes everything. The people in that room pushed me, inspired me, and challenged me in the best ways.</p>
<p>The Turning Point</p>
<p>There was a moment, quiet but powerful when I caught myself thinking:<br />
“I am not who I used to be, and I’m not yet who I’m becoming, but I’m on the right path.”</p>
<p>That was my turning point.<br />
That was when I realized the training was not just about leadership positions, it was about personal evolution.</p>
<p>Leaving the Academy With a New Mindset</p>
<p>I left the Leadership Academy refreshed, aligned and more intentional.<br />
Not because everything suddenly became perfect but because I now understand that leadership is a continuous journey, not a destination.</p>
<p>It is about showing up for yourself, for your goals and for the people connected to your purpose.</p>
<p>This experience didn’t just teach me about leadership.<br />
It reminded me that I am allowed to grow, allowed to evolve and allowed to rewrite my story at any point.</p>
<p>And honestly?<br />
I’m grateful. Deeply grateful.</p>
<p>Final Thought</p>
<p>If you’ve ever doubted your ability to lead, influence, or inspire, remember this:<br />
Leadership is not a title, it is a mindset and the moment you decide to grow, you’ve already stepped into leadership.</p>
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