<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="/rss/feed-stylesheet.xsl"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:geo="http://www.w3.org/2003/01/geo/wgs84_pos#"><channel><title><![CDATA[abkadd26 3Speak Podcast]]></title><podcast:guid>32a58a38-21e2-5c24-b4a8-1221126486f7</podcast:guid><itunes:author><![CDATA[Abode of peace 🕊️✌️]]></itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Abode of peace 🕊️✌️</itunes:name><itunes:email>abkadd26@3speak.v4v.app</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>clean</itunes:explicit><description><![CDATA[Listen and watch the latest videos from abkadd26. Hosted by 3Speak.tv. The free speech video platform on the HIVE blockchain.]]></description><link>https://3speak.tv/user/abkadd26</link><atom:link rel="hub" href="https://hub.livewire.io/"/><atom:link href="https://3speak.tv/rss/abkadd26.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><podcast:hiveAccname>abkadd26</podcast:hiveAccname><podcast:medium>video</podcast:medium><image><url>https://images.hive.blog/u/abkadd26/avatar/large</url><title>abkadd26 3Speak Podcast</title><link>https://3speak.tv/user/abkadd26</link></image><itunes:image href="https://images.hive.blog/u/abkadd26/avatar/large"/><podcast:podping hiveAccount="podping.spk"/><podcast:podping hiveAccount="podping.bol"/><generator>https://3speak.tv</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 12:01:27 GMT</lastBuildDate><copyright><![CDATA[2021 Abode of peace 🕊️✌️]]></copyright><language>en</language><ttl>60</ttl><podcast:value type="lightning" method="lnaddress" suggested="0.00000050000"><podcast:valueRecipient name="Abode of peace 🕊️✌️" type="lnaddress" address="abkadd26@sats.v4v.app" split="95"></podcast:valueRecipient><podcast:valueRecipient name="Podping" address="podping@sats.v4v.app" type="lnaddress" fee="True" split="4"></podcast:valueRecipient><podcast:valueRecipient name="Podcastindex.org" address="podcastindex@getalby.com" type="lnaddress" fee="True" split="1"></podcast:valueRecipient></podcast:value><podcast:value type="HBD" method="transfer" suggested="0.05"><podcast:valueRecipient name="podcaster" type="account" address="abkadd26" split="98"></podcast:valueRecipient><podcast:valueRecipient name="host" type="account" address="threespeak" split="1"></podcast:valueRecipient><podcast:valueRecipient name="podcastindex" type="account" address="podcastindex" split="1"></podcast:valueRecipient></podcast:value><item><title><![CDATA[When Progress Creates Hell: The Chilling Truth About Unchecked Advancement]]></title><itunes:author><![CDATA[Abode of peace 🕊️✌️]]></itunes:author><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><link>https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/81e7239b</link><pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 04:15:50 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abkadd26</dc:creator><guid isPermaLink="false">hive-181335/@abkadd26/81e7239b</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/81e7239b" rel="nofollow noopener" title="This link is not safe!">https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/81e7239b</a> <br />These sources collectively argue that <strong>intellectual, economic, and technological growth</strong> are not inherently moral and can flourish even within oppressive or "hellish" societies. When the driving force behind innovation is <strong>power, profit, or dominance</strong> rather than collective human wellbeing, progress often functions as a tool for exploitation and suffering. Historical examples, such as <strong>Nazi rocketry and Soviet industrialization</strong>, demonstrate that rapid advancement can coexist with extreme human rights abuses. Philosophical and modern perspectives further suggest that without a <strong>moral compass centered on dignity</strong>, sophisticated technologies like AI or surveillance capitalism can create a "well-run hell." Ultimately, the authors warn that <strong>true societal health</strong> requires a deliberate tethering of advancement to the flourishing of all people. Metrics like GDP or technical efficiency are insufficient to measure success if they ignore <strong>environmental sustainability and social equity</strong>.</p>
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]]></description><image url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/bafybeie4hb2kz5ndkdmltnaxf5hpks4unhrvlwe35pyghxhbxn7sxj6p5i/" title="Usual suspect 🦀🔪🚑 image"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/bafybeie4hb2kz5ndkdmltnaxf5hpks4unhrvlwe35pyghxhbxn7sxj6p5i/"/><enclosure  url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/bafybeialkdrdgcpu7k7nftz34xhtorbd7zfypqj6pdhim32p77d7unae6y" length="6279740" type="video/mp4"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Inadequacy Engine: The Economy Runs on Your Anxiety]]></title><itunes:author><![CDATA[Abode of peace 🕊️✌️]]></itunes:author><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><link>https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/ukpchuemnm</link><pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2026 02:04:14 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abkadd26</dc:creator><guid isPermaLink="false">hive-181335/@abkadd26/ukpchuemnm</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/ukpchuemnm" rel="nofollow noopener" title="This link is not safe!">https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/ukpchuemnm</a> <br />Modern market culture operates by <strong>manufacturing a sense of existential inadequacy</strong>, convincing individuals that they are fundamentally "not enough" without constant consumption. Rather than merely fulfilling needs, the global economy thrives on <strong>internalized anxieties</strong> and the constant comparison of one's life to idealized, commercialized standards. Institutions like schools and media reinforce this dynamic by <strong>transforming human worth into quantifiable metrics</strong>, such as grades, status, and employability. This system creates a <strong>cycle of symbolic consumption</strong> where identity is purchased rather than felt, making personal contentment a threat to economic growth. By <strong>monopolizing the definition of a "good life,"</strong> these forces ensure that self-esteem remains tethered to market-driven validation. Ultimately, true independence requires <strong>reclaiming dignity from these institutions</strong> and recognizing that human value exists independently of productivity or social signaling.</p>
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]]></description><image url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmUNBEMR8nNeGcHBAw3biVT5uxwWSExcs7pYuoYjwufBLc/" title="Peace 🕊️ and blessings be upon you my brothers image"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmUNBEMR8nNeGcHBAw3biVT5uxwWSExcs7pYuoYjwufBLc/"/><enclosure  url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmSvD9Ld5p7aW5NZ9U7a9uSAzxazy8zZ5pNmDLnCZR9E5t" length="8006543" type="video/mp4"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[I got this shell 🐚 apartment on discount]]></title><itunes:author><![CDATA[Abode of peace 🕊️✌️]]></itunes:author><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><link>https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/520a6d82</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 20:55:18 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abkadd26</dc:creator><guid isPermaLink="false">hive-181335/@abkadd26/520a6d82</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/520a6d82" rel="nofollow noopener" title="This link is not safe!">https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/520a6d82</a> <br />Luxury shell 🐚 apartment</p>
]]></description><image url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmaiGtf164thKzrkgikxmKzy9cPeqdTFuQ4MucR5aEJFaw/" title="I got this shell 🐚 apartment on discount image"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmaiGtf164thKzrkgikxmKzy9cPeqdTFuQ4MucR5aEJFaw/"/><enclosure  url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/Qmbwq7b1f4L6VRbNHdX19vwQCPAvkiXi8wj1kcdJ3ycx12" length="5084677" type="video/mp4"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Legacy (Urf) Vs Legitimacy (Haqq):The Burden of Proof and the Tyranny of Blind Conformity]]></title><itunes:author><![CDATA[Abode of peace 🕊️✌️]]></itunes:author><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><link>https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/d5da0fa8</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 20:44:55 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abkadd26</dc:creator><guid isPermaLink="false">hive-181335/@abkadd26/d5da0fa8</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/d5da0fa8" rel="nofollow noopener" title="This link is not safe!">https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/d5da0fa8</a> <br />Both sources analyze the social phenomenon where <strong>blind adherence to tradition</strong> unfairly forces those who question meaningless norms into a defensive posture. They argue that societies often use <strong>intimidation and social pressure</strong> to preserve customs that lack logical or moral merit, effectively treating the skeptic as a threat to unity. By utilizing both <strong>philosophical reasoning</strong> and <strong>Qur’anic principles</strong>, the texts advocate for a shift where the <strong>burden of proof</strong> is placed back onto the tradition itself rather than the critic. The authors emphasize that <strong>intellectual accountability</strong> and personal verification are moral requirements that should supersede mere cultural inheritance. Ultimately, the writings serve as a guide for reclaiming <strong>intellectual sovereignty</strong> by distinguishing between legitimate authority and the simple momentum of legacy.</p>
]]></description><image url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmS1ByZx8wLG4c8vkurwZ4fHmkuX78kS4DLwHsDwJD624s/" title="Legacy (Urf) Vs Legitimacy (Haqq):The Burden of Proof and the Tyranny of Blind Conformity image"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmS1ByZx8wLG4c8vkurwZ4fHmkuX78kS4DLwHsDwJD624s/"/><enclosure  url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmYj4FBsqV4kVbjzoZbQ4YzR78eX3agBkQXEsV4k4kaWav" length="51243509" type="video/mp4"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is It Anger or Calculated Sadism]]></title><itunes:author><![CDATA[Abode of peace 🕊️✌️]]></itunes:author><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><link>https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/7c8b15e2</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 19:54:18 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abkadd26</dc:creator><guid isPermaLink="false">hive-181335/@abkadd26/7c8b15e2</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/7c8b15e2" rel="nofollow noopener" title="This link is not safe!">https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/7c8b15e2</a> <br />The provided texts explore the critical distinction between <strong>impulsive human conflict</strong> and the calculated nature of <strong>dark personality traits</strong>. While standard arguments are often driven by <strong>reactive emotions</strong> and followed by regret, <strong>sadistic behavior</strong> is defined by a strategic desire to <strong>degrade and dominate</strong> others. These sources emphasize that <strong>true sadism</strong> lacks an emotional "floor," meaning the aggressor finds <strong>genuine pleasure</strong> in a victim’s distress rather than seeking a resolution. Recognizing these <strong>predatory patterns</strong> is presented as a vital survival skill, as it shifts the goal from <strong>resolving a conflict</strong> to safely exiting the relationship. Ultimately, the authors argue that identifying <strong>malicious intent</strong> early is a necessary act of <strong>self-preservation and respect</strong>.</p>
]]></description><image url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmUJyUqhqLyAkptpBtpZWEz5rsUX4vYnW2hipDMbMzGJKm/" title="Is It Anger or Calculated Sadism image"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmUJyUqhqLyAkptpBtpZWEz5rsUX4vYnW2hipDMbMzGJKm/"/><enclosure  url="https://hotipfs-3speak-1.b-cdn.net/ipfs/QmQ6VsBj3VbNxvh7ig7GifBjmxCtHMnF73nSBK2i3LYd9C" length="46065896" type="video/mp4"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[False Magnification: How Cosmic Scale Shrinks the Anxiety Monster]]></title><itunes:author><![CDATA[Abode of peace 🕊️✌️]]></itunes:author><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType><link>https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/e2b50e89</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 19:22:36 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abkadd26</dc:creator><guid isPermaLink="false">hive-181335/@abkadd26/e2b50e89</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/e2b50e89" rel="nofollow noopener" title="This link is not safe!">https://3speak.tv/watch?v=abkadd26/e2b50e89</a> <br />The provided text explores the concept of <strong>cosmic relativizing</strong>, a psychological and spiritual technique used to counteract <strong>catastrophizing</strong> and the narrow "tunnel vision" caused by anxiety or depression. By utilizing the Quranic principle of <strong>Dhikr</strong>, or remembrance, individuals can shift their focus from an overwhelming immediate crisis to a <strong>monumental canvas</strong> of divine presence and infinite scale. This mental "zooming out" re-calibrates reality, transforming a life-altering "mountain" into a <strong>manageable pebble</strong> within the context of the eternal. The sources emphasize that recognizing one's own <strong>finiteness</strong> provides profound relief, moving the mind from a state of paralysis to one of <strong>tranquility and expansion</strong>. Ultimately, the text argues that anchoring oneself in a <strong>vaster perspective</strong> fosters resilience by reminding the sufferer they are never truly alone or defined by a singular moment of pain.</p>
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